This morning I had a reflection on my 2019 and the last few months.
The shade thrown and subtle disregard from peers. The return of my eldest son from his prodigal process as a result of the meddling and manipulation of internal and external influences. The Ex whose using time to be on my Facebook page, stalk me, create conflict as a result of not wanting to let go control over me instead of living the said happy life he ran to and projecting. The unexpected passing of my Dad who I was estranged from as a result of having to choose my marriage, my husband’s role, position and honor, my home’s tranquility and my children’s safety over being a daughter and the bond with my Dad. The recent inspired call for me to begin my 21 day fast and the subsequent character attack and the physical attack over our (Canada) Rememberance Day weekend that climaxed on November 14th, resulted in a visit to my doctor and police. All captured Live on my Facebook page. http://www.facebook.com/opafmhday
My Becoming process has never been more true. We will go through moments when we decide to be serious and unapologetic about becoming our purpose. We will come up against barriers when we decide that completing our dreams is non-negotiable. We will be thrown weapons of mass distractions when we stay in action with our Becoming.
You are not alone. You will persevere. You will become. I am so proud of my resolve. I am very proud of yours. Stick with it. Don’t expect blind people to be able to proofread your vision. Many are in a spiritual comma, it’s not you, it’s them. As you climb higher up to your mountain top, the air will become thinner and not everyone with you would be able to breathe that air. Don’t get mad, don’t get upset, don’t get emotional. You give them compassion and let them stay at the level where they can breath. You keep climbing and allow them catch their breath. It is their decision to remain where they are and appreciate the climb thus far, decend back down to where you started together or continue to climb as they catch their breath as their comfort level. You don’t stop your climb. You don’t stop and wait for them to regulate. You have no idea how long their regulation will take. You have no idea if they will be honest about their capacity to breath so that you can continue or keep you in their comfort.
Not everyone like to be stretched. Not everyone like change. Your goals, dreams, and journey is too valuable and important for the collective to be help hostage by the few. The big picture is yours and the will benefit when you accomplish it.
So, stay in action with Faith and Possibility your vision will come to pass. Walk in and protect your light, your purpose will find you as you keep walk forward. Say what you mean, mean what you say, that’s integrity…Lady O❤💜 #StillSmiling #graceandease #TimeToShift #StillStanding #Becoming
WARNING!! So for those who don't know me yet, giving you a heads-up, my blogs make many severely uncomfortable as a result of the mirror they walk upon, LOL.
A proud Canadian with Vinci roots and Nigerian heritage as well. My blogs are shared unapologetically with various points of view including my own.
This blog is likened to a digital diary/journal. Having a physical book with me is not practical with the many moving parts of my life. Inspiration comes when least expected so here is where it is poured out.
Don't waste time spell-checking/grammar. Any imperfections are perfectly perfect and kept as is as many times these are done on my phone and the autocorrect does its own thing not always correct - go figure.
i use "i" in lowercase at times and when done, it is intentional.
Growing up, writing has been a form of retelling my journey and reminds me of my victories, and losses that overcame many through adversities.
Immigrated to Canada at age 12.
Having gone through many traumas -- molestation, sexual assaults, incest, betrayals, abandonments, fibromyalgia, domestic violence, breast cancer, toxic divorce, workplace harassment, and abuse of power, my audience is inspired by my perseverance.
Greatly divorced mother, i have embraced the innerstand my calling, personality, and purpose.
My passion has always been to assist teens and their families affected by various traumas.
Trauma comes in many forms and impacts in various ways. Mental Health & Wellness is the superpower that allows me to see with X-ray vision the bullshit that many have bling out and dresses up.
Founded an NFP -Empowering Our Teens' Spirit (ETS) that was an inspired vision dedicated to being an added resource for the emotional literacy of youths and teens. The vision was to provide world-class mental wellness workshops by collaborating with Motivating the Teen Spirit (MTS) -- a company that specializes in result-based teen personal development workshops. MTS served over 270, 000 teens. Prevented on record over 7,542 teen suicides and influenced over 2,500 to return to school, passionate about life and their goals. MTS has reconnected thousands of teen with their families.
i began on this journey to partner with MTS in 2011. In 2017 i was successful in manifesting the first MTS showcase here in Toronto, Canada on October 20. The greater vision for MTS in Toronto is for another time to pick up the baton and cross the finish line.
Currently, pursuing my Master of Divinity and Counselling. Be-ing a Daughter, Sister, Friend, Partner, Wife, Mother, Mentor and Coach has had their seasons. i am entering another season of other titles to experience.
Currently i am in a different phase of "loves". i love spending time in solitude, silence for introspection, meditation, and mirror work.
i enjoy bonding with my rescue cats, vacations, spas of various "me time" activities.
Stay in Action with Faith and Possibility. Walk in and protect your light your purpose will find you. Say what you mean and live like you mean what you say. ~ Lady O❤💜 😉
#StillSmiling #GraceAndEase #ComeUnity #Not2Day #WhoAreUWhatAreU #HeGotYou #OAKNetwork
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