With all the craziness dominating our focus, this beautiful occurred. Story of a girl who stayed focus and didn’t settle for anyone who just popped up. She pursued her dreams with no detours, no time offs and no distractions. Young, black, female in a society that limits, defines and predestined base on age, race and gender. She defined herself and proved wrong the limiting beliefs of society.

While in College she listened to R&B star Kenny Lattimore’s music, we all did. She never knew then she was listening to her husband to-be, especially when-we all did, heard that Kenny married R&B singer star Shanté. She, like every female went about our normal lives because R&B superstar lives are in a different world as ours, right? Wrong. When your steps of staying true to your passions exist, crossed paths will occur if your callings align.

Love this story. Stay loyal to your dreams. Settle for nothing. Love yourself & your space. Keep your standards high. Don’t listen to friends. Don’t lower to match their standards for themselves. They can’t see yours because of where they are. They will have you believe that theirs is practical. Get a different circle of friends who see with your optics. Don’t listen to doubts. Shatter the programming that Society has designed for you. The right person IS there.

I wish I had these words said to me and lived out in front of me. I made errors in judgment twice as results of having friends who I regarded as looking out for my best interest. I didn’t have Faith & Conviction lived out in and around me. I doubted my gutt & listened to “other points of view”, lessons learnt will never repeated.

This story has 2 soft spots. One, her name Faith is the name I had for my daughter. Two, her focus I had right, she kept going, I made a right, which ended up being a wrong. My lessons learned the hard way is to follow your dreams, follow your gutt (those with opinions and feedbacks wouldn’t live the consequences, you will), stay loyal to the standards you set, they are not too high, they are what you deserve, they are what you can attain, anything lower is not your best and living below your best never ends well.

I wish Faith & Kenny both a long, healthy, blended, adventurous, loving, loyal, integral, respectful marriage. May both hold true to their foundation and keep the foxes out of their garden.🌹

For those like me who took detour(s), the good news is that you will get chances to turn things around. Even though you lost ground and time, the lessons learnt will accelerate where you are with the time you have left.

Your calling & purpose still has your name on it. Your gift is yours. You have more of an unapologetic conviction walk moving towards it…Lady O💜❤🙏🏽 Here to serve. #StillSmiling #GraceAndEase #LEASTinc #LadyO #OAKNetwork #OAKkidsTV

And it begins.

Saw this coming a mile away. Knew it will be rolling out to us soon. Denmark already set precedence. Covid-19 vaccine is mandatory. Spain, Rome, Britian will be next to follow. Goats 👀.

Who I am have already been recorded by what I did not stand, compromise and settled for. Leadership in Religion & Society have had issues with my personality and I have accepted it. Some have even made added efforts to caution sheep about me.

Thankful goats see right through the bs and made their own assessments. Being able to recognize bs regardless of title makes many very uncomfortable around me. They take sighs of relief when I leave…LOL. I sense first and see title after.

History is recording and taking notes on our stance. When your up, what will your record be? Our Leadership have fallen prey to compromise and corruption. The herd stayed loyal to personality instead to principle. The flock is being led to slaughter. They took the tithes and first first and defiled with pride, sexual immorality and narcissism.

The flock remained silent and watched. Now what? Will you finally be the church with your power as intended or comply so that they can allow you to gather for church?

I know nature is waiting for the sons and daughters (The Church) of God to put things back in order and give unto Pharaoh what belongs to Pharaoh and unto to The Most High what belongs to the Most High.

The salt has lost its essence over the years that the question is, what have we given to Pharaoh that belonged to The Most High? Answer: Everything…

Begin to build yourself a home-base business that is yours. Build multiple streams of income, you’ll need it.

Lady O💜❤🙏🏽 Here to serve #StillSmiling #graceandease #TimeToShift #StillStanding #leastinc #LadyO

And then you have Religious Leadership telling you “to get the tithe into the church” dispite Covid-19 shutdown of businesses and lost jobs. They aren’t giving up their wealth, they are asking you to give your resources as a sign of Faith and true commitment to God. The “suffer to show yourself approve” nonsense that kept chattel slavery a profitable business for his descendants. I bet you that Hagee, Copeland and his camp have ancestral connections to slave ownership.

I’ve told my family to stop sending money to him, Hagee, Creflo and that whole camp and all these networks that host them. They don’t listen. This “man of God” shows his true self (like he hasn’t done so already). I saw the demon in him jump out jump back in.

Interestingly a connect was made with him and Tyler Perry. Seems like TP gut him a sweeeeeet deal. One that the Minister says he couldn’t refuse.

Listen I did a post on my FB 9 page ago. This was just sent in my WhatsApp. I know when I’m listening well. We are going through a purge. Let these false prophets and prophetess starve. When it was said, “it is finished” IT meant it. These imposters energy stayed present because they don’t want to loose control.

It’s time for it, time for their bondage to loosened. Wake up people of God. See God in YOU & Not in these snakes. All power was given and left in YOU. These snakes are being revealed, please allow your eyes to be open. You’re constantly keeping them shut because these snakes tell you that the light will hurt your eyes…Lady O💜❤🙏🏽 Here to serve #StillSmiling #graceandease #TimeToShift #StillStanding #leastinc #LadyO

So Be It…Lady O ❤💜🙏🏽 Here to serve

Ok people. Just heads-up so that my tribe stay moving in Wisdom to 👀 as Goats, not 🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♀️like Sheep. So it’s all over social media. The Military is enforcing shutdowns in Canada & USA.

The funny thing is I have a peace during all this. Like this is the moment for the Word to be alive. I had the same type of feeling when I was given the breast cancer diagnosis (notice I didn’t say my breast cancer, it was never mine to claim).

After a week of Job like cussing and anger, I had another week of making a decision with the direction I was going to take. I told the Cancer that if this was my Creator decision to write my story, every “t” and every “i” was going to e crossed and dotted by my Creator, not the diagnosis. I spoke to that moment, that thing and that situation letting them all know that They didn’t have the last word or say. I command the Word to become life and show itself in this time because I’m good but my kids are watching. I told my Creator the Words have to come of the pages and be real for my kids who were watching this “Christian” thing play out.

See, my kids were going through many negative experiences that was attached to Christianity. As a result of knowing that this was about them, I took the appropriate posture; rightstanding posture aka righteousness posture. This was the moment of real, right before their eyes.

Let us have the insight to also see that this is the time of having a righteousness posture of peace, wisdom, & strategy so that those watching can see the Word living out. Leave a blueprint for them to follow. They will need it when it’s their turn.

How easy is it to make you bow in the eyes of Fear? How easy is it for you to be mute in the eyes of Fear? Trust and believe that you being tested in the eyes of Fear will ramp up…Lady O❤💜🙏🏽 Here to serve #StillSmiling #graceandease #TimeToShift #StillStanding #leastinc #LadyO

I’ve been saying this for years now. I’ve been shunned & side-eyed by pastors. Religious leadership used their influence to make others ‘weary” of me and sheep at religious institutions all levels of my academic journeys do social distancing. Now I’m LOLing.

Church is not a building people. Your 10% is fattening the same energy that existed that said “crucify him”. Sheep being deceived that they milk they were drinking was actually meat. None have matured. All have been kept in bondage under the generational religious lie that giving 💰💰is worship. They all point fingers at other Denominations yet their structures are all the same.

Within their walls are secret societies. Seats designated and “Reserved” for religious royalty. Titles given like “First Lady”, is their a 2nd? Is the Pastor preparing to add to his bedroom chambers so a title need to be established for who came in 1st? Please. Mega everything and Private jets, boats and multi cars, disgracefull. While those around in the community of the building location have empty cupboards, the working poor.

I witnessed with my own eyes, the head of the Food Bank Ministry bringing bags of bread that were remaining from distribution offer her Sister friend 1 whole bread to take home. That friend said, ” no I’m ok, I have already”. At the same time a Single Mother of 4 kids, FOUR, spoke and said, “I’ll take it if she doesn’t want it”, you know what this Honourable Elder Woman of the church, who Pastors publicly give honour to did? Break the 1 loaf in half and pass it to the Single Mother. A person this Honourable Elder Woman of the church knows has 4 kids because the Honourable Elder Woman of the church is also the children’s choir director. I stood in pure shock and smh.

I have personal examples of Pastors being sexual predators and the “church” made the Pastor the victim. I have personal examples of abortions happening to protect an image. I know personal examples of loyalty to friendships and a denomination instead of loyalty to principles at the expense of children’s emotional and mental well being.

So, yes, shut them all down!! Quarantine them all. Let the real church arise and these clones be destroyed. They are a virus themselves as they ruin lives, and spread more harm than good to and through the hue-manity. When the words “It is finished” was uttered, the trembling that occurred that destroyed foundations was the reaction that Fear had that Its gig was up. Hue-manity being made aware that they Do Not need a middle person, What? They can come boldly to The Creator, What? They’re tithes and offering goes directly to the person in need, What? Hue-manity looks out for each other, directly, What? They don’t need us? What? We have to become hue-manity not profit from hue-manity? What? No, no, no! So at the same time, plans were put into motion to still make themselves needed, and relevant maintain profitability on hue-manity’s dependency on them as mediators.

Many still believe in and practice what was destroyed by the words, “It is finished” as a result of the Leadership making the building a business, not a gathering place of refresh. Falsehood has kept the building “where you meet God” and its Leaders perceived as a level closer to God and Idols. 2020 and many still believe that Divinity is inside a building. Hence why behaviours in the parking lots, workplaces, personal lives and selection of computers sites and entertainment are different. Many still have not been free indeed in true mindset that The Holy Place is them. The vessel, the place that The Creator made, not mankind and–watch this, is the place that The Creator chose to blew in to. Who got that? If The Creator, blew into something, I would think that’s a good indication as to where the decision was made as fitting to be with. A decision made by The Creator.

Didn’t begin with this intention to teach, and unapologetically remaining obedient.

No building was created, just A planet, living things and then hue-manity. Then deception came into play and convinced that what was made simple (Simplicity) was actually complicated. In the complication is where deception comes into play, opens the door for many “interpretation” of the complication it created, when Simplicity, what the Creator made, was not complicated at all. Complexities brings the need to get clarity, and that leads to the History of “many are called few are chosen” dilemma.

The place where you gather should have no debts over it. The gathering is a check-in to see who is in need and be of service (emotionally, mentally, food & water). Provide living food (fruits & vegetables). Provide instruction on how to prepare (cooking classes). Provide counseling for the emotional & mental wellness. Provide Entrepreneurial training for a sustainable home base business. The place of gathering should indeed a place that after you leave, your need was met.

There is a Creator. Deception is for real, for real. Life does have meaning. Compromise is for real. There is a higher purpose for us all. Trauma is intended to derail you from your purpose. Repentance is a must. Pride is real. Salvation must be performed. Comfort is a prison. Church is YOU. Religion is a lie and will kill you. Relationship is truth and will free you. All things were made to be free including your worship experience. Your worship experience should never have a collection plate passed around or “tithing time”. PERIOD…Lady O💜❤🙏🏽 Here to serve #StillSmiling #graceandease #TimeToShift #StillStanding #leastinc #LadyO

Grand Rising tribe!!

For the new members that were added yesterday welcome🙏🏽🙏🏽

The phrase tribe has been popularized and like most things, many use out of a fad.

Tribe has different meanings. The one that was inspired is “a group of goats”. Herd is a group of sheep. Be in the world not of the world. Be transformed with the renewing of your mind.

In the world I am a goat. Not of the world I am a sheep. In the world I am a goat because I listen not to the Shepards voted by the masses, congregations, delegates, or board of directors, to a leader picked, positioned or appointed by Pharaoh minded individuals to be voted for. Do we have democracy or the illusion of democracy?

If we have democracy, how do we have laws that make right wrong, and wrong right being populated by a majority that say they are Christ-like? How have we ordained leadership that has made the mindset of Pharaoh, interpret the Word of The Most High? How did the world interpret the Word and the majority allowed it? The answer, we remained sheep following imposter Sheppards. Imposters that are so elegant in appearance, eloquent in speech and likeable in presence that wrong was made right in our own eyes and our compliance.

Those with the truth were told to be heratics, to be shunned, cast out, pushed out and no longer befriended. Why? Because their perspectives would threatened the market place in the world and in the sanctuaries. The heaven that is being told, is said to have many mansions, records that as it is in heaven so it is on earth, assures that what is released in heaven is also released on earth, so why on earth are we giving unto Caesar what is not Caesar’s and unto The Most High what is Caesar’s.

Right now Caesar gets 90% & The Most High gets 10%. Really? No it ought not be so. Caesar should get 10% of our time, focus, resources and we take 90%. From our 90% we give The Most High 10% (give to those in need in the Spirit of gratitude and Thanksgiving for our blssings) and we build our legacy (which is in honour of The Most High principles) with the 80%. Legacy is children and communities.

The Most High has left all that is needed when “It is finished” was uttered. We were given this earth to subdue and multiply. The truth is that here was and is The meeting place that was designed for The Most High to B1 with us. Deception & manipulation and abuse of power is the mindset of Pharaoh. All 3 went into full swing went the vail was torn, it is finished was uttered, indicating and stating that no longer are we made separate from Him.

There has been lies handed down to keep us in bondage. All power has been given to us. We walk around powerless not knowing as a result of the weapons of mass distractions in fear and entertainment as the vices used to keep us from connecting to the truth about who we are, what was done and how hue-manity was to move forward.

When we return to Simplicity we begin the reconnection. Eat simple, drink simple, worship simple (meditation) no hoopla needed, love simple (love others as you love yourself, but how do you love yourself has been contaminated hence how we love our neighbor. How we see love period has been perverted), live simple (the reset is happening, nature is on our side).

I will expand on the live simple (body, mind and spirit) and nature our ally. Simplicity is the call to action in preparedness for what lies ahead…Lady O💜❤🙏🏽 Here to serve

As long as Fear abides, NO moves will bring lasting prosperity. Look at Fear, he is desperate. Look at Fear she wants attention. Many would want to jump, try rinse & repeat in this time. The message is for a tribe not the herd. There is an appointed Day. So there’s no fear/anxiety here.

I am bringing attention to this energy called Fear sparactically in the past and more intentionally in 2020. Know that It casts a shadow of reality, It is not reality.

Fear can have a useful purpose to protect, when it is under the submission of a greater positive force/energy/mindset. When Fear is the dominant energy, it is no longer protecting (even if it justifies and rationalize as if it is). Like anything in excess, the outcome have negative consequences.

Literally, seconds after I send out a post about Fear on Facebook, news was sent to me about the World Health Organization declaring that Covid-19 (Corona virus) is now being called a pandemic.

When I checked the article is said at 12:31pm the announcement was made. My post was done 4 hrs previous.

I awoke this morning with the words “Fear wants attention. Fear brings no lasting success. Wisdom acknowledges It, Understanding is aware of It, Action moves with Wisdom & Understanding as the Master over It. Fear wants attention, ultimately it desires to be the Master”.

Allow your actions to have both wisdom and understanding in it. Don’t let fear become the master. Remember what I have been saying for few years now. There has been 3 parts to it; Stay. Walk. Say. 3 sections, 3 time frames, 3 purposes. I don’t know why they were given in my thoughts but they were, begin repeating them.

The first section is Stay.

Stay in Action with Faith and Possibility. This is for such a time as this.

The 2nd section is Walk. Walk in and protect your light your purpose will find you.

The 3rd section is Say. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

We are in the Days (even my last name Day was inspired during a pressing time. So much so that I did a formal name change towards it), of testing, sifting, and separating the talkers from the livers. The real ones, from the fake ones, the ones loyal to truth, and those loyal to the image of manna. Those who compromise with an explanation, and those who remain integral without needing to give one. The sheep from the goat. The heard from the tribe. The followers from the leaders. Those who drink milk, from those who eat food. Those who speak the word, from those who live the Word.

Tribe, let your actions be moved in using wisdom and executed in understanding. Let fear have no place in you and in your household.

When the words “It is finished” was last uttered, Fear became afraid for its power and set into motion lies, manipulation and deception to keep itself relevant. In 2020, the meaning of “It is finished” has begun again to manifest and fear is once again afraid.

Listen tribe, to master Fear, is requires a call for REAL relationship with The Most High. This relationship occurs only at 1 place and it is done individually. This place is only accessed through direct contact with your Creator. It requires you to be void from weapons of mass distractions. This place is a space of humility, truth, and transparency. You need not to dress up to impress, not to drive to show off, not to pretend like all is well, and not speak like you are “cultured”. This is a place and space where your Creator truly is present. It is called Simplicity.

I will bring you more on where Simplicity is located and give you the address for you to put in your GPS. Choose you this Day if Fear will master you or if you will use Wisdom & Understanding to Master It…Lady O ❤💜🙏🏽 Here to serve #StillSmiling #GraceAndEase #LadyO #OAKNetwork

Grand Rising tribe!!

The snowy roads, the Teachers strike, the Corona Virus, plus the daily stressors of life (Spouse problem, Ex-spouse nonsense, Children problems, racism in your child’s school, work place problems, Rent increase, TTC fare increase, cyber bullying that you child is experiencing, etc). Look every turn is turmoil.

Then your own questions; when to make a stand,  how to make a stand, should I make a stand because of fear, should I make a stand does it matter anymore? Religion is conceding, secular view points are dominating. What was once wrong is right or has the right to be permitted, and not only permitted but illegal to be wrong.

Culture Vultures and Religious Vultures are the   ones being held in Social high esteem and Mega churches.

The First stage was to misrepresent Truth within the interpretation and dispensing of Spritual truths.

Second stage was to cause the false truth to  influence mindsets that would lead to actions from the false mindset.

Third stage was for the actions to create conflict as a result of the gross wrongs.

Forth stage was to have the hurt from the wrongs to create resentment of the false spiritual truths to desire separation of Church & State.

Fifth stage keep the false truth alive with the Church & grow the resent for spiritual truth in the State.

Sixth stage is to have the State resentment overtake the Church, which was easy because the Church is standing on pillars of falsehood.

Seventh stage, People in both Church & State reunite, come together, marry, intertwine, co-habit, commune with the dominant oneness of the False Truth now the dominant mindset.

The few, the sealed, the true remnants are those who did not co-sign to loyalty to a religion, a religious figure or relationship with affiliation. The few, the sealed, the true remnants are the ones who co-signed and remain loyal to relationship with Creator, creation and the laws that both provide in plain sight and in the simplicity of truth. Truth is not complicated.

Both Church & State are infected with the virus of compromise. Is there an answer, is there a solution? Some say yes, others say no, and some say it all province so do nothing. What say ye?… LadyO ❤💜🙏🏽Here to serve #StillSmiling #graceandease

I have been recently educated from a Sister who is on a mission residing in the “free North” about treatment of girls in parts of Africa.

Not being seen as “real black” since I was a child and at times still today because I don’t celebrate how “real blacks” do, or go to events that “real blacks go” I empathize with others who are affected by these mindsets.

Yes, I don’t accept all invitations and those I attend, I don’t show my external excitement as other sisters, that doesn’t mean that my “blackness” is up for review. I get the looks from my sisters, you know the “she think she beta dan we”, ” who she think she is”, “she stooch” look plus the facial vibe and “look down” very well. It’s the same pressures that our sons & daughters experience still today.

Growing up in my community, I’ve been called every name associated with not being “real”. I sympathize with our youths for the pressures they feel that they have NO choice but to be to fold in all to be “accepted” into their community. That’s why I am passionate about what I do.

We, and I say we, are responsible for the furthering of this mindset and the ongoing pressures that our youths feel burdened by. I am calling out the Women because sisters, we do set the tone in our families. Children are in this identity fight to “fit in” because of what we have allowed Society to tell them what being a person of African descent looks like, talks like, dresses like and good in instead of it being us that is doing the speaking.

I know that being a woman of colour does not require me to show my “real blackness” by how low I can go to touch the dance floor, or how slow I can move my hips or how well I can suspend my upper body and just rotate my *ss.
As we know more, we should reflect that knowledge, to whom much is given, much is required. We are all mentors and it’s up to us to change the mindset. Waiting for society is not the answer.

After the education of what this sister from Africa disclosed; young girls being placed on beds made of nails, over sharp objects, while learning how to rotate their hips, all to teach them how to hold remain suspended over their husband during sex, no Mother would ever see twerking or any hip rotation movement of our daughter’s body, or that of our own as cute or cultural.

Young girls, placed on beds made of nails, learning to keep their pelvis up and gyrate to please a husband they are being groomed for, most given to older men, daughters as young as, can’t even bring myself to say it.

Listen!! What we celebrate promotes and feed that energy of child abuse, rape, sex trafficking and pedophilia. We are encouraging the hurt (body, mind, and soul) of a girl everytime we sexualize these body movements. Instead, let’s encourage our daughters and sons, to be authors, encourage the love for a language, explore Sciences, Math. Find a recipe and make something, find a cool science experiment and do it. Get their minds curious.

Parents, think about what mindsets we are voluntarily passing down to our children by what they see us invest them into and what we celebrate as achievements. Are you there at parent/teacher interviews or only at the talent shows? Do both. Do you brag about your daughter on a music video or do you highlight to her that you’re proud that she handed in all her assignments on time. Afterschool programs? Are they attending a different language class, creative writing workshops, music, drama or is dance classes the default? Nothing wrong with dancibg at all, our kids are multi-talented, and it is important to let them believe and see that in themselves as well.

Society wants them to entertainers, jesters, fighters, athletes and remain at the bottom of relevance. It’s OUR responsibility to let our children know that they are the head, not the tail. They are above, not beneath. They are dancers AND thinkers. The realness of a black woman has nothing to do with her wine…LadyO ❤️💜 Here to serve #StillSmiling #GraceAndEase

I’m waiting for an apologize for the adding weight to my struggle and the increase attacks to my safety, by selling my image to the highest record label bidder, all to assume wealth made by making your entire career calling my black goddess, feminine goodness out of my name.

I’m waiting for your apology for having 2 fellow women on dog leashes as your escorts to Grammy. I’m waiting for you to apologize for co-signing on those women’s lack of self-love.

I’m waiting for your apology for adding to the black woman’s stereotype that I have to fight daily against. God knows I have so much else to fight that your Masters have put in place.

I’m waiting for your apology for adding to the narrative your approval that I should be seen for my ass, and sexual attractiveness rather than my intellect.

Oh, I’m especially waiting for you, Momma Snoop, to call him up your son and put on your maternal influence on, he needs to apologize. I had a death threat and I have been sexually assaulted and it’s all Snoop’s influence. Around the time that his hits were in full rotation, these horrific experiences occured. Snoop put it our there. His words were heard by millions and SOMEBODY acted on it. He’s liable. I wonder if someone thought of a class action against all record labels on behalf of black women? Sign me up. An apology or our army Snoop.

Yeah, right, they’ll have a Jesus shown a African first in the Vatican. Don’t kiss my feet, stop taking our wealth and give us back ALL that was taken or given from a place of intimidation. That’s another Blog.

The stereotype of your music Snoop said loud and clear that our worth was only for sex. Snoop’s music encourage black men to believe that real blackmen domestically abused black women, berate black women, emotionally destroy black women and sexually mistreat and assault women.

Your apology to 1 woman tells me that you are capable of apologizing to me as well. Your lyrics caused harm to me.

What you said was not out of character, it was your character. If it wasn’t then apologize. To show us that  you had the ability to reflect, humble yourself to apologize all this time and have not, is why my community is reacting, it’s why I’m reacting now.

Is your apology from a place of sincere remorse for his words towards women or only towards that woman? Did you do this from a space of money consequence not the moral consequence?

If this is fake while using something that should have really been sincere, it makes you double hypocritical and that’s my issue. If you are sincere, then an apology to me shouldn’t be at all difficult.

Case in point; in Canada there was a public sport figure, an icon named Don Cherry. Don made a statement that resulted an uproar. Was what Don said wrong and offensive to me? Is what he said and how he said it known to be him? Was there outrage? Did Don apologize because of social pressure? Did Don apologize with the threat of loosing his current Television hosting gig? Did Don stay true to the Don Cherry image? Should Don have apologize? Did he? Did he loose his gig? You know why Don did not apologize, Don is a man if integrity whether we like his version of it (integrity) or not. He says what he means, and means what he says, bows to no one. So if Don ever apologizes I will accept it because I know he IS a person of integrity.

It’s not the openness of racism that impedes the advancement of the black experience to unify to against the attack on black women, black men’s mindset and the black family, it’s the anti-black racism that comingles in our community in black or brown skin that does the most harm to advancement.

LadyO💜❤🙏🏽 Here to serve #StillSmiling #graceandease #TimeToShift #not2day #leastinc